Soul Mates

This week on Facebook I was reading a post by a friend who mention she has finally found her Soul Mate, the one person God Intendend for her to be with for the rest of her life. I was truly happy to hear this, because she is one of those few people you meet in a lifetime that even if she hasn't seen you in years would have your back if you really needed her. Anyways getting back to my point. I have been married for a while, but i do not believe the man I am with is my Soul Mate. I believe deep down in the pit of my stomach that I met, dated, married, and divorced my Soul Mate when I was to young to appreciate him.See when we are young we are much more selfish and imature than we realize (yes mom I know you tried to tell me this), but we rush into things that we think we know everything about. Personally, I didn't know how to think for myself. I listened to what everyone else thought I should do that do what was really in my heart. Hinesight being what it is and all. I think if I knew then what I know now about life, love, marriage, and yes Soul Mates I would have given my choices and decisions alot more thought. I know now that that bridge has been burned, and that everyone in question has moved on,but you never know There are 80 year old couples who found there way back to their Soul Mates.....As for my friend I am glad she has finally met someone who loves her and her son because she deserves it.

One more thing before I go. I may not be with my Soul Mate, but the man I am with gave me two of the most wonderful gifts one person can give to another, and that is my precious boys. God brings people into and out of our lives when he thinks it is best, so who knows what the future holds. I my Soul Mate ever reads this, I hope that he knows the package has went from one to three, and I know that the man who would truly love me for me would love my boys just as much.